Tantric massages are often
searched for because someone wants to last longer in bed. This is not something
that is a big mystery or secret thanks to a few television and media
personalities that swear that through Tantra they are able to accomplish
amazing feats while practicing Tantra.
From having an orgasm that lasts
for hours or even having sex for just as long makes people’s interest spike and
they want to know if this is all real. Well the short answer is that yes, this
is all real and you really can achieve the same amazing things that these
people are achieving simply through tantric massages and practicing Tantra at
home. However your concept of intimacy, sex and orgasms might need a little
refreshing.
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There are countless agencies like Tantric Dolls out there who can help you with your sexual issues, just give them a call and make a booking or ask for advice. |
For more people sex is all about
penetration and the idea that through that penetration sex is going to be
completed once at least one side arrives at their orgasm. Well tantric
practitioners such as the ladies over at Tantric Dolls will not be performing any sexual act during the massage and
there won’t be any penetration. What you need to realize is that what we think
about sex is only part of the entire scope of intimacy. Sex can be anything
that happens before that brings you and your couple closer.
The flirting, the playful kissing
and even the undressing, this also means that anything that happens after what
we normally consider sex can be considered part of it too, so the cuddling, the
laughing and the long talks are all part of it.
Tantric massages and Tantra in
general teach you to enjoy these experiences and appreciate them just as much
as you do the part that is in the middle. Also, there doesn’t have to be any
penetration at all. You can have sex in many different ways so it is time you
stop thinking as putting your penis in something as sex.
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Masseuses like Valentina from Tantric Dolls can help you achiev e the goal of lasting longer in the bedroom through the tantric arts |
Orgasms are the physical and
psychological satisfaction of these acts. Yes you can have a forty minute
orgasm but your mind has to realize that it’s not about simply ejaculation. It
is about feeling so close to someone that their skin is in the way that your
body feels like it is both relaxed and tense and that you feel euphoric and yet
at peace. That is what tantric massages and Tantra seeks to explore and if you
are ready for it you are more than welcomed to come try.
When discussing these points with
my friends recently I happened to mention how I felt tantric massages had
helped me take pleasure back into my own hands. They sort of laughed and
admitted they had never understood that phrase. In fact most of my friends all
agreed this was some sort of ‘excuse’ as to why I enjoy tantric massages
because, as they pointed out, in a way you’re actually giving away your pleasure
to your masseuse.
They argued that by letting her
have the ability to offer pleasure to me I was essentially just passing out the
power to someone else. This got me thinking onto the dynamic of me and my
masseuse and also if I was really finally in control of my own pleasure.
First of all I had to think how
my masseuse came into my life and how she showed me how to achieve pleasure
both while I was with her and while I was alone. Of course I invited my
masseuse into my life against everything that anyone told me. I made the
decision to put my joy and pleasure first which is already completely out of
the ordinary for someone to do. I wasn’t seduced by my masseuse but she came
knowing of what was about to happen and I knew what she was there for.
Secondly, I never gave my power
away, in fact I took it back from where it had been stored: society’s grasp. I
had been told all my life what to feel about sensuality, how I was supposed to
express it and when and with whom. This time I broke the norm and said ‘this is
what I want’ and went for it.
Not only that but my masseuse
taught me how to get pleasure on my own and not to rely on her presence. She is
a friend, someone I can go to and someone I feel wonderful around even when
we’re being sensual. My power and my pleasure resides now only in myself and
not anyone else and now no one that is with me can even dream of dictating when
sex is over, when I am satisfied or how I need to be satisfied.
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